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We very much regret that this organisation is not able to offer individual advice to those seeking to adopt step-children. The best we
can do is to provide some information on this and the previous page for those who are considering step-parent adoption.
Step by Step
The first thing you should do is to contact your local social services. They are able to provide you with information and will encourage you to consider all the
legal options that can be an alternative to an adoption order. If, after considering this advice you wish to proceed you should give them three months notice of your intention to adopt.
You should give this notice in writing stating the child/ren's full names and dates of birth, stating that it is your intention
to apply to adopt them. It is best for the letter to be signed by the parent AND their partner.
In England and Wales the next stage is to obtain 3 copies of an application form (A6) from either your local Magistrates Court or County Court. You can also obtain a
PDF file of the A6 form
here. You should fill in the form (3 times) very carefully and fully and remit it
with the appropriate fee. You may not have to pay the fee. Please obtain a Form EX180 from your local court if you think this may apply to you.
In Scotland you need to prepare a petition and lodge this with the local Sheriff's Court.
The court will ask a social worker to provide a Schedule 2 report which will involve them in interviewing all the adults involved as well as the child or children.
A court date will be set and the court will consider the application. They can then decide if they should make an Adoption Order having fully considered the schedule 2 report.
This entire process usually takes between 6 and 12 months.
Other web sites you may care to look at:
The Court Service
You can also obtain the following PDF files from this web site:
Adoption: A Guide for Court Users
Department of Health - Step Parent / Relative Adoption FAQ
Stepfamilies.co.uk
RaisingKids.co.uk
ParentLinePlus.org.uk ParentLinePlus offers general parenting advice.
You can also obtain some PDF files from this web site, such as:
Divorce, Separation, and New Families
Being a Step-Dad
Stepfamilies: challenges, myths and rewards
Changing Children's Family Names
This charity also has a help line on 0808 800 2222.
Books:
The Good Step-parent's Guide by Ruth Langdon Inglis (This book is now out of print but your local library may have a copy)
Other things you should know
The Government has recently changed our adoption laws. You should check with
The Department for Education and Skills for
information about any very recent changes. This page was last reveiwed on December 28th, 2005.
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